Saturday 22 April 2023

We forge the chains we wear in life!

 We forge the chains we wear in life!

                                                            - Charles Dickens

This quote by Dickens made me stop and wonder about its applicability or was it merely rhetorical.


Whilst, it is true albeit some of these chains are willingly worn by us as if we like wearing them. As if, they are lovingly forged and worn with a lot of pride. For instance, if I like to write or to sing, I would develop these skills with a lot of dedication and love and spend a lot of time and effort honing them. Thus, these skills become chains forged by me that I wear happily while knowingly or unknowingly they limit me from exploring a new area or skills which perhaps would have given me equal pleasure and fulfilment.


So, are such forged chains desirable or not? 


One can argue that no chain is desirable but then, human excellence stems from such forged chains...Charles Dickens wouldn’t have been a renowned writer if he had not bound himself by such a chain in life. So, the question isn’t if a chain is desirable or not but whether the chain that we forge and wear in life is setting us on a path towards excellence, pleasure and fulfilment or is it pulling us down and limiting our life from its full expression of its potential. 


So, let's go ahead and forge chains and wear them with pride that set us free to express our life uninhibitedly to its full potential.